MiniMongo

Ah, teasing.  Teasing can mean several things.  When we were kids, teasing was something we did to put others down on the playground, which was considered bad.  When we joke around with others, we say "I was just teasing", which is considered playful.   

But what about teasing on a sexual level?  Is that bad? Is that playful?  Actually, it could be both, but in a good way (at least for the end result it's good)

When done correctly, teasing your partner is a great way to build the sexual anticipation between the two of you.  Getting that sexual arousal going is beneficial to all parties involved, right?  Tease your wife.  Anticipation makes the act even more pleasurable.

Here's the trick guys, the teasing doesn't have to start in the bedroom.  You don't have to get feather and tie your partner to the bedposts (although that may come your way later on). You start the teasing out on a date, in the living room watching TV, riding in the car.  You see, the same kind of "playground" teasing we did when we were kids is perfect for this.  No, I don't mean hurting someone, or saying hateful things to them, I mean engaging in a playful manner while throwing in a bit of humor.

If you use the same playfulness as the playground, coupled with the "I was just teasing" attitude of joking around, you've got yourself a GREAT way to tease.  The more you can build up that sexual tension, that sexual anticipation, the better it will be when you finally get to the actual sex part. 

The point is, expand your mind a bit here, don't think that all teasing should be done in the bedroom.  If you've never thought of this before, it may open up a whole new world for you, one that you won't be disappointed in.