Quit Doing Sex and Start Talking Sex
I"m sure you've read those surveys in Cosmo, GQ or Red Book about "How To Turn Your Lover On", or "Top 10 Ways To Get Him/Her To Perform Better", right?
Do you know what the common element with most of these surveys is? TALKING! Yes, that's right, Talking. More specifically, TALKING DIRTY!
In its purest form, Dirty Talk is nothing more than communication between you and your partner. Matter of fact, some ladies go as far as saying they can't have an orgasms by just sexual intercourse. If that's the case in your relationship, wouldn't it be great to bring her to a mind blowing orgasms by just SAYING the right words? (during intercourse of course)
Wouldn't you drive your man wild by "saying" in addition to "doing"? Face it ladies, men get turned on by the simplest things, but enhancing those simple things will get him going more so than ever! Just something to think about.
Let's get down to it, shall we? Here are a couple of suggestions as to what to say (remember, we'll have to keep this "PG" as kids could be reading this)
"How about you just sit back and let me do a striptease for you."
"I love it when you go down on me…..please don't stop!"
"Ooohhhh, whatever you're doing with your hand is wonderful!"
"Spank me, use me like your love slave."
"Tonight, you're in my control. Whatever I tell you to do, you do it and then we'll see how much pleasure I'll give you."
You see, Dirty Talk doesn't have to be dirty, but can be thought of as dirty. Saying phrases as these gives the recipient the ability to imagine whatever it is they want. The important thing is that the "talking" is perceived as being dirty.
Of course, getting into much more "R" and "X" rated material just wouldn't be appropriate in this format, but maybe in the near future.



